What to Wear to an Engagement Party

What to wear to an engagement party

A few months before the wedding day, a newly engaged couple often throws an engagement party to celebrate their big news.

Deciding what to wear to an engagement party depends on the type of event. Unlike weddings, which are usually formal, engagement parties can take place anywhere from a formal restaurant to a backyard or boat! Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered with some handy outfit ideas. 

What should I wear to an engagement party?

An engagement party is a celebration, and the dress code should reflect that! While engagement parties are usually more casual than wedding receptions, they still give ample opportunity to dress up in your festive best. Here are a few suggestions to try, for men and women:

Chinos and a neutral shirt

For smart-casual events, you’ll look more than appropriate in a nice button-down shirt in a neutral color. Pair it with a pressed pair of chinos or slacks and add a sports coat.

Light-toned suit and formal shoes

For semi-formal and formal events, a men’s suit is the best option. You can show off more personality by choosing a light tan or muted blue color, with a contrasting shirt and freshly shined shoes. Don’t forget to add a patterned tie for visual interest.

A satin midi dress and wrap

It’s easy to elevate a midi dress to suit the style and season. Add a faux fur wrap and knee-high-boots for wintry events or keep it simple with delicate layered necklaces and sandals for a summer party.

A solid-toned jumpsuit and strappy heels 

Jumpsuits are just the ticket for engagement parties. They’re comfortably chic, looking just dressed-up-enough without feeling stuffy. Add strappy heels for evening events or slip into a pair of mules for a backyard BBQ.

Can you wear white to an engagement party?

As with weddings, it’s best to stay away from all-white ensembles at an engagement party as well as any other wedding-adjacent events. You don’t want to get mistaken for the bride or take away any of her spotlight.

Can I wear black to an engagement party?

On the other hand, black is totally appropriate for an engagement party! It’s a sophisticated, elegant choice – and you can add pops of color with your accessories. Of course, you’ll want to keep the season and venue in mind. If it’s a spring garden party, pastel tones and floral prints might be better suited.

Can you wear cream to an engagement party?

Like white, cream tends to be too bridal for an engagement party. You can get away with it as part of a print or element of your outfit. For example, if you’re wearing a geometric-print jumpsuit that’s black and cream, this would be fine.

Can you wear jeans to an engagement party?

No, unless the event is uber-casual. If you’re grabbing drinks at a pub, then you might be able to get away with pairing a pressed pair of jeans with a button-up shirt and jacket.



What to wear to an engagement party: do’s and don’ts

DO consider the dress code. The invitation will usually state if the event requires formal, semi-formal, or cocktail attire.

DO consider the season and venue. Summer calls for floaty chiffon fabrics, while winter parties mean you can opt for darker tones and plenty of sequins.

DON’T ignore etiquette rules. Stay away from white, and don’t show too much skin. The happy couple should be the center of attention.

DON’T forget to have fun with it! Ultimately, a couple throws an engagement party to celebrate their big news with friends and family. Your engagement outfit should be smart enough to suit the dress code, but also something you feel comfortable in.